Sometimes it seems God is silent. This is frustrating to us. It may seem like God has gone on an extended vacation and we’re not sure when He will be back. But that’s not the case.
Silence is not absence. Silence is an opportunity for growth.
My children are eight years apart. That was not the way we planned it. We wanted our children about 3 years apart – you know, we wanted the perfect family. But on April 15, 2000, I suffered the first of several miscarriages. During the years that I prayed and waited for another baby, I learned about God’s so called silence.
Looking back on that period of my life, I don’t really think God was silent. I think it’s our reaction to circumstances that make us think God is silent. We get our hearts set on a certain answer. Any other answer seems like God is not listening to us. Perhaps it’s the other way around. Maybe we are the ones not listening, because we are not hearing what we want to hear.
God’s ways and thoughts are better than ours (Isaiah 55:8). We can’t anticipate His answer. Too often we try do this, so we don’t see the answer He gives us because we are looking for the answer we expect. Instead, keep focused on God. Perhaps He’s leading you in a new direction.
You make known to me the path of life; you will fill me with joy in your presence, with eternal pleasures at your right hand.
The Lord is good to those whose hope is in him, to the one who seeks him
As you know, we count as blessed those who have persevered. You have heard of Job’s perseverance and have seen what the Lord finally brought about. The Lord is full of compassion and mercy.
During the years of pregnancy loss, the hands of God touched me through friends, through Pastors, through strangers, and through circumstances. I would not have been a part of those remarkable events if I had my “perfect” family. I grew in my faith during that period of time. When I finally got to the place that I understood the meaning of surrender to God, I got pregnant by accident. That “accident” is now 8 years old.
Silence is not absence.
Look for the opportunity for growth and listen with a new ear.
Ask God for His direction. He will lead you. He will teach you.
“Call to me and I will answer you and tell you great and unsearchable things you do not know.”
Whether you turn to the right or to the left, your ears will hear a voice behind you, saying, “This is the way; walk in it.”
Peace and blessings,